How to not be intimidating to guys
Well, yeah, a first chance-maybe a second even, but draw the line there. His being intimidated might keep him from acting on the fact that he’s into you. Sick of trying to come up with a not-totally-crazy-girl way to bring it up to your guy friends and get their take on things?A guy can get over feeling intimidated and don’t do a damn thing to change yourself so that he’ll feel “more like the guy.” You be you. And he’ll ease his way out of it if he’s up to overcoming his own insecurities. So we come to the annoying conclusion that he might BOTH like you and find you intimidating. Totally over over-analyzing the cryptic messages he leave on your Facebook Wall? Send your question over to askthedude [at] collegecandy [dot] com.He might not be able to flip the switch in some romantic moment, might even need a little encouraging, but be given a little time he can climb the mountaintop. The Dude won’t sugarcoat it, beat around the bush, or any other weird cliche that means lie to you.
are the one making the first move, they may feel as though they will be in constant competition with other men: ones with better jobs, fatter wallets, movie-star smiles, and abs you could do laundry on.
The more beautiful or desirable a woman, the more she can have her pick of men.
Olivia Munn may be a geek1 , but how is average Joe Nerd supposed to compete with the celebrities she meets on a daily basis?
What does it mean when a guy says you’re intimidating? Basically it means he thinks you’re a little too much for him to handle. What is it that a guy will find intimidating about a woman? For other guys it’s an independent streak that makes them feel inferior (and proves them to be dumb asses).
A good guy friend of mine I’ve known for years, we’re hanging out at his coming home party, family barbeque/get together thing, and he brings up how he’s always been intimidated by me. Does that imply he might think that you’re battier than a bedbug? Still, could be a fierce intelligence, financial superiority, or any other empowering traits.
” And I do mean genuine; shy, geeky guys are perpetually concerned that people are secretly making fun of them.