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At other times it's more of a powerful, paralyzing hesitation.
Like they know how they want to act, but an invisible force field is preventing them from doing so.
Another variation is when a guy runs into a woman, say because he sits beside her in a lecture, chats to her for a bit, and comes off well. A third scenario might be something more drawn-out, like a guy has a few conversations with a woman he never really thought of as more than someone friendly to talk to.
He notices she seems like she's becoming attracted to him, and he blows things soon after.
Dating advice is outside the scope of this site, with this article being a semi-exception.
Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing.
Sometimes they just won't get nervous around her for whatever mysterious reason.
I'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part I'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act.
As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they think.
They'll come away from the interaction feeling excited and optimistic about where things may lead.
However now they have a reason to feel pressured and jittery around her, and that's exactly what happens.
At other time they can force themselves to do it, but they're a total mess inside the whole time.